Posted on by iyan setiawan

If you read my previous posts, you can judge me that I’m an advanced user of Grindr. And since I’m only “advertise” this blog on my Grindr’s profile. So I guess 100% of my blog’s readers are Grindr users.

It’s a giant-enormous bull shit, if I’m saying that I only looking for friend in Grindr. Mostly is fun (and I’m surely believe 99% will be nodding their head), and the rest is just friends to hang out, sip a good coffee, watch a movie, or to have supper.

But recently, I wasn’t too horny to meet up for sex, either not to excited to meet up and have a decent chit chat. Still, I’m enjoying chat with stranger. Enjoying every parts where you start with “Hi”, and mostly I will start chatting with english anyway. It might sounds like I’m trying to look cool. But trust me, it will raise your charm point. And I like chatting with smart guy, in my understanding, if guys can chat in english fluently they must be smart (a bit shallow, yes fine). I’m not saying I’m an expert in english language. You can find my grammars is such a mess, and even the sentences that you can’t even understand.

And the next part is probably asking pic. OK. I’m not putting my face on my profile. But just to fair enough, if I am the one who say ‘Hi’ to you first, anytime you asking for a pic, then I will send it for a trade. If you say ‘Hi’ to me first, then you must your pic first. I guess that’s the main rule. Unless you already put your face in your profile.

How about if you didn’t get reply at first instance. Come on man. It’s Grindr. 99.9% of the population will only chat based on the appearance. Just leave it. And what if you don’t like the guy who say ‘Hi’ to you? Simply ignore it or block it. Don’t push yourself to be liked by everyone. I met several guys who keeps saying ‘Hi’ several times although I keep ignoring them, and then saying why I am so rude, and bla bla bla. OK. What do you expect sih? So are you still hoping that the guy will reply yours? What if the guys finally replied? Next thing, you want him to meet you in real and have sex with you? Please be real bitches! You cannot push your luck. Move on.

Back to the part when you trading the pics. It is common, if you ignored after you send pic, or you ignore them after they sent pics. Don’t be so naive and ridiculous by saying “I always fair, whenever I agree to trade, I will reply no matter how ugly he is”. If you don’t like him, just ignore. Some of users will be completely understood that you’re not into him. They are just trying their luck to you. Either way, if you got ignored, just leave it. And anyway, do you sure that it’s their real pics??

So what you can expect from the Grindr? Sometime handsome faces is just not enough. Most of the guys in Grindr is muscle worshipper, simply put your six packed abs in your profile. Voila, zillion messages will comes to your way. How about combination of that? And from my experiences, combination of handsome faces and muscular body either escort or mistresses. And if you find a guy with that perfect combination and he’s not as I describe above, then you got blessed! But, let’s think straight, if yourself is considered gorgeous with astonishing shaped, will you have Grindr account? Will you. Ah I remember, the last guy I met with that combination and not categorized as an escort or mistresses, he’s a sex maniac. He’s demanding to be gang banged. I’m telling you the truth gays!

OK. Enough talking about Grindr for now. I got so many thoughts to be written about Grindr on this blog. Keep reading bitches! – at Tubagus Ismail Dalam

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